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Lack of public transport also means that people stay sober enough to drive back home.
As a result, the social lubricant effects of alcohol don't operate in the same way as in a city with public transport.
Let’s say you meet someone you like -- cute, fun, smart, funny.
You ask where this person lives --“Silver Lake.” You live 20 miles away in Santa Monica -- and that’s not just any 20 miles. 20 miles is a perfectly reasonable distance to travel in the 5,000 square miles of Los Angeles to get somewhere. It’s almost twice the length of Manhattan (13 miles) and enough distance to cross a couple of national borders in Europe.
Showing up late, not showing up at all and breaking promises can then become the norm.
When that happens enough times to enough people, you end up in a legendarily flaky city, and social and dating life encounter more obstacles. The transience of the city’s entertainment culture adds an aura of impermanence and unreliability to social ties.
Mathematically stated, less party time less imbibing of adult beverages = less fun.
This, plus the other six aforementioned factors, may very well make LA the toughest big city in the US to be single in.
Then I heard multitudes of other people voicing similar experiences.So people become less likely to meet to get to know one another casually. Even though the times required to get around in NYC are comparable, the perceived effort of taking the subway or hopping in a cab is much less than driving yourself through snarls of traffic. Lack of pedestrian culture reduces opportunities for casual contact.Hence people there are much more willing to go places and meet up. Whenever I visit Boston, New York or London, I bump into friends – on the sidewalk, on the subway, in the parks.It’s called the sex ratio – the number of men for every 100 women. excess of women over men), social mores are relaxed, women go out a lot, and everyone has a ball. excess of men), people go out less and attitudes are more conservative.
No one knows exactly why this is, but it makes sense. whole countries like Russia) and smaller ones (e.g. According to the latest singles map from the 2006 US Census, New York has a 211,000 surplus of single women over single men, while LA has 89,000 more single men than women.That casual contact is missing in LA, because we spend a lot of time in our wheeled steel cages.